Some families have decided to split up and sleep in different houses to avoid the possibility of an entire family being killed. Others, such as in the religiously-mixed city of Nasser Wa Salaam, are swapping houses with friends until the violence eases. Both families can then live in an area where people from their background are safer.
Since 2003, mobile phone coverage has improved massively and Iraqis now have broadband for the first time. These are used by civilians trying to survive and continue with their lives. It is dangerous to go out so, naturally, people use mobile phones to call and text, and email to stay in touch with friends and family.
There are reports of lecturers emailing and texting exam questions to their students to avoid having to go out to university. Entire websites have been set up with tips to avoid being attacked or kidnapped by blending in, or by using Google Earth to work out attacking routes.
Simply, people are worried about staying safe. Their priority is to avoid being kidnapped or caught in attacks, especially in the areas with the worst violence, such as Baghdad and Basra.
The fighting damages basics like water supplies, so people have to manage without clean water or sewage disposal. The power supply is erratic – people have to plan around only having electricity for a few hours a day – and some areas don’t have any mains electricity so they share rented generators with neighbours.
Health-care facilities are stretched to the limit as they struggle to cope with mass casualties. People avoid going to hospital because it’s too dangerous to get there, and the patients and medical staff are frequently threatened or targeted. The power cuts and straightforward damage from the violence mean they are in no shape to meet people’s basic needs.
The impact the war is having on the economy means people are becoming poorer. People might not be able to go to work and earn, or family breadwinners may be killed or injured, so there is no money coming in. Inflation is high - prices go up fast and people can’t afford what is in the shops, especially if they are living on savings and not earning.